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Appreciating the Little Things in Life

This past year has brought a lot of new changes and I discovered there were a lot of things I was taking for granted, such as:

Sleeping through the night ~ being easily mobile ~ getting and staying clean all day ~ dates with Ben ~ reading a good book ~ eating any food I wanted! ~ sleeping past 5 AM ~ only having 3 loads of laundry a week ~ adult conversation ~ having Kimmy close by ~ getting, more so, staying pregnant ~ going to the beach during the Summer ~ eating out ~ A memory; “Momnesia” has really thrown me for a loop ~ wearing glasses (Sadie pulls them off my face) ~ good health ~ the patience and sacrifices of my parents ~ a stable ward ~ stress-free plane rides ~ having Ben’s undivided attention during non-football season ~

To learn from this experience, I am trying to look for all the good things around me now and I’m trying to NOT take them for granted. This is what I’ve come up with so far:

Sadie still being so cute and little ~ not having to say bye to Ben at the end of the day, like we had to do when we were in college ~ getting up early enough to watch the sunrise ~ Sadie being immobile ~ Sadie’s fun personality that keeps us laughing ALL the time ~ knowing Kimmy still comes home for Christmas and summers ~ a husband that helps with night feedings, chores, cooking, lesson preparation, and whatever else is stressing me out on a given day ~ having all of our sibilngs active in church ~ not having to drive kids to school yet ~ great friends ~ Ben’s good job ~ having a mom that is a good cook ~ a nice, cute home that fits us and is safe enough to go walking in ~ how happy Sadie gets in the morning when she sees me (I’m sure it won’t be like that when she’s a teenager) ~ a really nice, supportive mother-in-law who is easy to talk to ~ BYU’s good football season (I’ve definately learned NOT to take that for granted) ~ Sadie letting other people hold her ~ not working ~ having a sister-in-law who is a photographer ~ Sadie’s two nice, long naps every day ~ not having a dog (hint, hint Mom) ~ our current good health ~ the family that lives close by ~ a college education ~ having my dad as a seminary teacher and him always giving me lesson ideas ~ having time in the morning to exercise ~ the Canadians being up in Canada and not making the roads extra crowded ~ being protected from every hurricane ~ feeling happy and safe when I wake up in the morning

Well, I’m sure I could keep going, but that’s a pretty good list. I’m going to try really hard to be grateful this week for all of the wonderful things I have in my life. This was actually a pretty fun activity, too!

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  • September 16, 2008 - 6:13 pm

    Lori - aren’t babies cute and cuddly in their jammies. even gabi seems more cuddly when she wears those footies:)ReplyCancel

  • September 16, 2008 - 9:16 pm

    Johnson Family - Great thoughts Alicia! It’s always good to take some time to think about and write down the things we are grateful for. I’d like to do that too when I have a moment to myself.
    I love the pictures of Sadie. She is beautiful!ReplyCancel

  • September 17, 2008 - 1:27 pm

    sarah - I love the random Canadian comment. It really threw me off! But I couldn’t agree more … Stay in Canada you Canadians! I can say that because I have Canadian relatives. (hehe)ReplyCancel

  • September 17, 2008 - 6:14 pm

    Lori - Stay in Canada, you Canadians. I can say that because I have children (they LOVED McKenzie ’till she could walk and make noise, and then I got nothing but dirty looks EVERY where I went for about three years. Horrible, ugly, dirty looks!!)ReplyCancel

  • September 19, 2008 - 5:17 am

    Kurt 'n Des - Way to be so grateful. i thought for sure I’d see my name listed a couple of times in there…
    We’ve watched Sadie and Ben’s video over and over. It’s so funny.
    How did you get her to do that?ReplyCancel

  • September 22, 2008 - 4:07 pm

    chante - I love your new layout!!!ReplyCancel

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